Various
courses are also presented at churches and/or other venues, where the focus ranges
from Dysfunctional Families & Shame, Emotional Dependency, Sexual Abuse, Sexual
Addiction, Freedom from unwanted Same Sex Attractions as well as Dealing with
Pain and Anger.
Please visit www.restoringwholeness.org
FOR
THE STRUGGLER: Why do I have to change? You don't have to change.
God loves you as you are. Your needs are legitimate. The way you satisfy them
needs to change. What do I have to do? You have to be committed to
your healing. You have to be willing to do all it takes to walk into victory.
A support structure is vital to assist you during this time. What is a support
structure? A support structure is anything or anyone agreeing with you
that you need healing and victory in a certain area of your life. This can be
your church, support group, family or friends. It is important that your support
structure will not give up on you and will stand by you when you need them most. FOR
FRIENDS & FAMILY: "How do I respond?" This Is one of the
first questions asked by family and friends when they find out that someone close
to them struggles with homosexuality or other relational problems. It is important
not to reject the person. At this time they need your love and acceptance more
than ever before. We understand that we cannot control or change anyone. The moment
we try it causes the individual who is struggling to close up and turn away. Restoring
Wholeness is willing to help the families and friends of people caught in life-controlling
sexual and relational issues. Not only do family and friends approach us for advice
on how to help the struggler, but sometimes the discovery of another persons brokenness
brings out their own uncertainties and insecurities. A family member might need
help just as much as the struggle
FOR THE CHURCH We offer
a comprehensive "Leader's Equipping Course" to pastors, pastoral care
workers, disciplers (counsellors) and lay workers. The goal is to help you understand
and minister effectively to relationally and sexually broken people.
We
support all churches by offering practical and effective help through disciplling
(counselling) for those desiring change from sexual and relational brokenness. We
offer a variety of LIFE Matters© Support Programmes for those dealing with
relational and sexual brokenness as well as for the family and friends who also
need support. For more information please call our office, +27 (0)21 439 4721,
or go to www.LIFEMatters.co.za We
believe it is vital for today's church to be part of the solution to this increasingly
high-profile problem.
There is also a great need to support the youth that
struggle with their sexual identity. We continue to create effective ways to communicate
to young people new avenues to better reflect God's purpose for their life. Our
new LIFE Matters Youth Programme, which is being created, will be a valuable tool
for churches, ministries and youth organisations.
Please visit
their website www.restoringwholeness.org
for more information. |